YEAH!! I did it! I pulled off my first every surprise party. And let me tell you it was great! Both of my parents turned 60 this year so I had the idea to throw them a surprise party back in the summer. Dads bday was in September and Moms bday was this past Friday. I have always wanted to throw a surprise party so I figured this would be perfect.
Once I knew I wanted to do this the next question was where to have it. So I thought of one of our favorite restaurants at home, San Nicola, and figured it would be perfect. (Mike and I had our rehearsal dinner there). So getting mom & dad to the restaurant was easy. We said we were taking them out for their bdays at San Nicola. So naturally neither of them had a problem with it. The hard part was convincing them to go to a late dinner (8:45pm). The resturant only lets you have private parties on Fridays and at 530 or 830. So we went with the later time to allow everyone time to get there. I got all of moms friends names from her tennis partner (thank you Nancy!) and all of the boat people names & addresses from our good friend Barb. With their help I was able to compile a great guest list. I aslo had a couple neighbor friends coming. Along with the guest list our dearest family friends drove down from CT. I would say they are more like family than friends, The Buckleys. So they called mom & dad and told them they wanted to visit. Mom thought it was perfect so we could all be together and Judys bday was on Saturday so a perfect excuse to celebrate 2 great birthdays.
Venue- check, guest list-check, next stop invitations. I had some invitations made and sent them out..... and then everyone said yes! I couldn't believe it...although I should bc my parents are great people so who wouldn't want to come. But anyway everything was falling into place. Now it was just a waiting game until the special day arrived.
I can not tell you all the anxiety that I had. I couldn't sleep the week of the party I was so excited and nervous at the same time. The night before I hardly got a wink of sleep. I was so worried of everything that could go wrong and I did not want the surprise to be ruined. Mike assured me everything was out of my hands and it would be a great party no matter what.
So Friday afternoon Mike and I head to West Chester. The Buckleys were at our house already so they were able to keep my parents occupied. But as suspected mom & dad called on our way wanting to know when we would be home so we could head to dinner. When we got home we were all able to stall a bit saying we had to change our outfits. I took a little extra time getting ready.
And now we are off to the restaurant. I was able to text someone on the way to let them know we were coming. I was sooooo excited. So we walk in and have mom & dad go first. We had a back room in the restaurant so the guests we able to "hide" in the corner. As soon as mom walked around the corner the gig was up SURPRISE!!!!!!!! Oh Boy what a surprise it was. Mom instantly started crying (as suspected) and she turned and hit my dad. She thought he had done this.....but of course he had no idea either!! Oh man I was so happy everything went off without a hitch. The BEST surprise EVER. Neither of my parents had any idea!! It was just a wonderful evening. I couldn't have asked for a better night. So we drank, ate, and talked the night away with great friends.
Of course here are some pics. I have a ton of everyone that was at the party but these are just family pics....
All of us walking in after the surprise. Mom is still crying.

Mike & Mr. B with a drink. Both happy we pulled off the surprise

Mike & I thanking everyone for coming and talking about my sister and wishing she was there with us.

Mom (crying again) toasting to my sister
Dad trying to be funny

After, after, dinner drinks at home with great friends

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM & DAD. Love you













